245 pounds was the number on the scale when I went to a doctor's appointment in the summer of 2000. I was seventeen years old and had just come back from a family vacation. As humiliation and fear come over me when I came out of the doctor's office to tell the news to my mom, I thought to myself, "How could I be this big? Where did I go wrong?" I sat next to her in a chair and cried. As I continued to cry, I began to compare myself to the people closest to me. My best friend in high school was a fit, athletic cheerleader with a killer body and over-confident personality. My twin brother was a statue of athletic strength and a somewhat popular boy at school. Who was I? I considered myself a nobody.
For as long as I can remember, I have always struggled to maintain a healthy image of myself. Over the past thirteen years, I have been on numerous diet plans, weight loss pills, exercise programs, and have seen a handful of doctors all in an effort to find happiness. I thought that if I could be "skinny" enough or "athletic" enough, maybe, just maybe, I could be comfortable in my own skin.
Well, everything I tried led to a complete and utter disaster. After every failed attempt to find happiness, I would get depressed and start experimenting with unhealthy habits. I became a smoker, an over eater, a binge drinker, a workaholic, a girlfriend of a loser, and ultimately a woman who had lost faith in everything.
In April 2008, my life was spiraling out of control. After a series of bad events that happened over the course of four months, I found myself in a Lowe's parking lot crying hysterically on my way to work one morning. As I sat there, flashbacks from that day at the doctor's office in high school came back to me and I began to feel despair all over again. Eight years later and I was still asking the same question and giving the same answer: Who am I? I am nobody.
Being young, I don't have a lot of life experience; however, I can share this with you: the journey to self discovery begins with connecting and believing in something bigger than you. It's finding a constant factor that you can rely on for strength when everything around you changes. For me, the feeling of being valued began by reconnecting with God and nurturing my spiritual life.
Over the past two years, I have completely changed emotionally, physically, spiritually, and mentally. Through prayer, fellowship, and the development of close relationships with family and friends, I have come to find out that I AM SOMEBODY. I AM VALUABLE.
With full confidence, I can finally say that I have a healthy image of myself. Do I look like Cindy Crawford? No. However, I have run four 5K's, a 15K, a 20K, and seven half marathons in the last year and I am currently training for the Chicago Marathon on 10/10/2010. I also have a great family and good group of friends that help encourage me along the way.
Metals from some of the half marathons I ran.

Some of my clostest friends and I getting ready to run a 5K.
Don't let your happiness be defined as a number on a scale. Let your self image be rooted in a faith that allows you to achieve greatness.